PAPI IS IN!
Relationships! Dont you wish relationships
werent so complicated? I mean, wouldnt it be nice to find
the right guy, the first timeand have everything turn out right?
Well, life isnt quite that simple. In reality, its all about
learning and growing, and believe me, with relationships, you certainly
learn and grow. So whatever is happening to you in your life right now,
let me know. E-mail me at DearPapi@qvMagazine.com
I am involved with someone right now who Ive known for a year.
We are very committed, but I recently met someone else and we started
a great friendship together. This guy has a lot of great things about
him and things have begun to get more personal between us. We feel we
cant be together because we are involved with others in our life.
But it feels great and I think I love this guy. Whats the best
solution? My intention is not to hurt anyone. I care a lot about both
of these guys.
I think you need to reflect on how you really feel about each of these
two men. You say youre very committed with the man youre
currently dating, but you also say that you think you love the other
guy? Que te pasa? Look, how would you feel if you were in your mans
shoes? Would you like it if he began falling in love with someone else
but didnt tell you? Although your intention is not to hurt anyone,
it may be too late for thatespecially for your boyfriend. You
need to be honest with everyone involved, including yourself. I think
you may need to take some time away from both guys so you can sort out
your feelings. But you need to make a decision quickly because the longer
you draw this out, the worse it will be for everyone. I know its
a difficult situation, but it just wouldnt be right to allow it
to get any more complicated than it already is. Good luck, mijo.
Im a 20-year-old Latino from Los Angeles. I work for a well-known
package delivery company (brown trucks highly recognizable). This one
guy I work with is about to get married to his long-time girlfriend.
My problem is that in the course of getting to know all my coworkers
I have found out that this guy is interested in sowing his wild oats
before getting married. While thats normal for some guys, this
guy has expressed some interest in me. He told me that hes never
felt like this for any guy, and that he didnt even know he was
interested in guys until he met me. Now, hes asked me if I would
like to go out with him someday for dinner. What should
I do? Should I go for it? By the way, he is very handsome. Please help.
United Papi Services.
It sounds like you might be getting a package delivered to you with
a plaque saying Home-Wrecker! Just kidding, mijo. But all joking aside,
look at the bigger picture: This guy is about to be married to a woman
and the relationship you may begin with him will probably be just messing
around. Mijo, why are you going allow yourself to be put in a
predicament where theres a 99.9% chance that youll just
get played? Ademas, dont forget that there are other people involved
here and this may have the potential to do great harm to the man and
his fiancée. I realize that the thought of being with a straight
guy is a real turn-on for a lot of us QV guys, but try to think with
that head above your shoulders, not the other one. And besides, there
are plenty of other guys out there who are just as handsome, if not
more handsome, than this UPS boy who are probably more interested in
you the person than just your sexy legs in those brown shorts!
So check it, I live in Dallas, TX, and there are no Latinos here
at all! Although Texas is the state with the second-most Latinos in
the whole U.S., there doesnt seem to be any Latinos here.
Do you know of any places where Latinos chill at in my city? Chillin
You may not realize it, but youre living in a town with a fast-growing
number of Latinos! No matter what scene youre looking for,
it shouldnt be too hard to find Latinos who share common interests
with yourself. Id recommend starting out by checking the resource
listings and club listings in the back of this issue. You can also check
out the QV web page for even more resources or do a search on Google.
In addition, I know that Dallas is one of the few cities in the country
that has a Latino radio call-in show called Sin Fronteras which
airs Sunday nights starting at 10pm on 89.3 FM. You might want to give
it a listen to see if they discuss any resources you can check out.
But in general, Id suggest just keeping your eyes peeled because
those fine QV Dallas papi chulos are definitely out there.