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Deaf-initely Proud
Christopher Luna describes what it's like being deaf, bisexual and Latino.

There is much more to diversity in our Latino community than just skin color and age. Take, for example, 21-year-old Christopher Luna of Huntington Beach, California. Christopher is a deaf, bisexual, Latino. He's just your everyday guy, who enjoys clubbing, making new friends, dating, surfing the internet, and even collecting stamps. Christopher is also a student at Santa Ana College. On an e-mail interview, Chris talked to us about his life and gave us a glimpse of what it's like to be a bisexual deaf Latino:

What's your ethnic background? Mexican American.

What age were you when you first discovered your sexual orientation? I think I found out about my sexual orientation when I was 14 or 15.

Whom did you first tell about your sexual orientation and what did they say? I told a close friend. He said it didn't bother him because he knew other people who were the same way.

How do you meet guys? Is there an organizations where deaf QV/bisexual people can meet each other? Yes, there are a few organizations for deaf QV and bisexuals. One is called SCRAD Special Interest West Hollywood Friends. Another organization is Deaf Queer.

What do you prefer to call yourself? Hearing-impaired, deaf, or something else? Deaf-many deaf people don't like people to call them "hearing impaired."

Are you open about your sexuality in the deaf community? Yes, I'm open about my sexuality. Some of my friends who are bisexual or QV are open about their sexuality in the deaf community, too.

Is it hard to be open there? It is hard to be open in the deaf community because many (straight deafs) are not cool with it.

What do you mean? The deaf community is very tricky. Sometimes, they'll say they're pretty cool with the QV and bisexual community, but some of them QV-bash. Sometimes they are very two-faced, and you don't really know what they are really thinking. Some are cool with it, some are not.

Being that you are bisexual, do you prefer men, women-or both equally? I prefer both equally men and women.

If you do settle down with someone, would you like that person to be deaf or not? I could settle down with either one. I have had ex's (men and woman) who were hearing.

And how has or how are those hearing relationships? It's not easy being in a hearing relationship because of communication. If the hearing person knows how to sign, then it's no problem. If not, I can teach them sign language.

Do you ever get discriminated not only for being deaf, but for being bisexual? I don't get discriminated for being deaf, but I have been discriminated for being bi from my ex boyfriends. They tell me not to fool around with women.

What is the best thing about being deaf and bisexual? Having friends who are the same way as I am.

Check out Christopher's site on the internet at www.baggyboy.com.

by Danny Beltran


Resources for deaf Latinos
According to the Deaf Queer Resource Center, there are an estimated 2.8 million deaf QV, bisexual and lesbian people in the United States. If you are interested in learning sign language, you may either buy a sign language book at your local bookstore, contact one of the organizations below, or sign up for American Sign Language classes at your local community college.

Resources:
California Latino Council of the Deaf and Hard of Hearing, Inc.
P.O. Box 65591 Los Angeles, CA 90065 TTY: (562) 634-4112
Email: CLCDHH@aol.com Internet: www.deafvision.net/clc/

Deaf Aztlan: P.O. Box 14431 San Francisco, CA 94114
Email: aztlan@deafvision.net Internet: www.deafvision.net/aztlan/

Deaf Queer Resource Center: www.deafqueer.org

The Deaf QV & Lesbian Center: 150 Eureka St., Suite 108
San Francisco, CA 94114 TTY: (415) 255-0700



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